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Still on the friendship talk,we hear shocking stories of friends turning to enemies which makes us to wonder “Does friendship worth the hype at all”

This brings us to the reasons why most people do not want to take the risk of friendship anymore

A person whom you share a bond with, definitely is a person who you should be able to open up to and share your personal burden, success, development with.

Unfortunately, there are ways people sees your development, growth, success and take it as a threat to theirs. Some can go as far as vowing not to see you ahead of them, before you do.

News that should bring joy, eventually yields hatred, envy, jealousy. True friends will always stand by you and be happy for you the little positive achievement you’ve accomplished

If anyone is against your success or happiness,run as far as possible from such person

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Assassination is the “trend” but have you ever wondered who gives the assassins information about a person’s movement, achievement or location at a particular time?

In every misfortune, there is an insider passing the information.

Some friends can’t bear seeing their friends succeed before them, so they prefer to end their life and get to explore their wealth, since nobody would ever suspect them killing their own friends.

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Normalize keeping people at arm’s length before making them your friend, best words to use instead of “friend” are colleague, classmate, acquaintance,client, playmate to mention a few

As the saying goes “look before you leap” study and watch people whom you want to be friends with before taking the step of friendship.😊

Alot of people, just want to be friends with you to exploit you but it is left for you to increase your standards.You state the rule and be very cautious also

But don’t misunderstand me,I never said that friendship is bad but keeping a friendship with people you don’t trust is what breeds bad friendship

Everything that became bad, has something awesome about it.

In as much as the difficulties in friendship strikes, there are people who makes friendship worth the hype and the risk

Having a good friend isn’t only great for our development but it is for the betterment of our offspring, the connection, the ideas, the innovation, the positive move to success.

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Friends are really important in our lives, because we are being taught how to forgive, tolerate, connect, laugh and make a meaningful communication

We learn how to relate to our society because of our type of friends, the ones that do not share the same ideas, views, religion and background Friendship teaches us to coexist with the public.

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Friendship and companionship are ordained by God because he created a woman(Friend) for Adam when he saw that he was lonely and needed someone to keep him company,who would assist himself.This illustration teaches us that we all need each other to grow,we are all special in our differences and the synergy of our difference makes a greater and positive change. Friends keep us mentally and physically strong.

Despite how, difficult friendship might be, we shouldn’t be discouraged because friendship brings out the best of ourselves, and with the right friends, our offspring would be proud and look up to us as an example and the community at large.Good friends are supporters, motivators and helpers.😍

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So don’t be scared, there are good friends out there with the right mindset.It’s only left to you to study and be careful about choosing your friends.

Shout-out to my real friends out there who’ve been supporting and motivating me to do better,I love you allll😘😘

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While I was much younger,I was completely naive and young to depict or understand what we call friends….I had a misconception about FRIEND/ FRIENDSHIP thinking that anyone I knew or spoke to was my friend not until I grew wiser and mature and certain situations made me realize the meaning of true friendship and who is worthy to be called a friend Growing up, most of us were limited to a geographical space, and our environment could define how we made our friends. School, neighborhood, church, mosque and so on and this brings us to today’s topic on Emmahspeaks 🌻

To start with,we all use and say the word FRIEND,but have you sat back to ponder on the true meaning of friend/friendship?

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A friend is someone who’s always there for you not withstanding the circumstances either good or bad,one who advises you,one who understands you,one who brings all positive ideas to life and make you see the need to be successful…..(now by successful,I don’t mean financially successful alone),one who’s ready to listen and speak to you….. someone doesn’t scold or call your attention when you go wrong is that a friend???A good friend should make you yield positive result…..A friend is a person whom one has a bond of mutual and cordial affection with.

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The word FRIENDSHIP has been greatly abused to the extent that you could meet someone today and call the person your friend because you’re able to talk and connect with the person….How can you be friends with someone who doesn’t share a bond with you,who can’t lead you on the right track, who can’t dictate when you’re wrong,who can’t push you forward.

We’re all familiar with this bon mot “show me your friend and I’ll tell you who you are” or “Evil communication corrupts good manners”…..The people who came up with these wits knew the basis of friendship and have one way or the other experienced the good and bad side of friendship.

Your choice of friends is who people see you as, friends could make or mar you, there is more to friendship than mere discussions, hanging out and all other fun aspects.If your “friend” is only around you when things are rosy and disappears when things are difficult and bitter,then begin to redefine your “friendship” with such person.Friends are to stand by each other no matter the turbulence

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In my next post I’ll be giving more details… please don’t forget to like, comment and follow my blog… Anticipate 😊 Gracias,Dios te bendiga❤️

Emmahspeaks 🌻