I have made my research and have come to a conclusion that people who use the phrase “it will end in tears” are those who are jealous and intimated by your relationship.When people say it’ll end in tears, they mean that they think a situation will end badly with people being upset.
Truthfully, I think people are too broken to actually know there are still good people who would actually treat them right when they venture into a “relationship” .
If you’ve been in a relationship for more than 5 months, I must congratulate you because in our “world” where people date for a week and call it quit, you’ve chosen to stay with the same person for more than 5 months despite the odds.
Duration is not what’s important. We’ve heard stories of people in relationships for more than 2 years still ending up with a sad break-up.
I know the last thing on your mind is a breakup. I know you have misunderstanding every here and then with your partner, you have assumptions rather than communicating, you compare your partner relationship with another person own, no conflict resolution system/strategy, third party syndrome, you “see your partner finish”,your partner doesn’t understand your mood, frequent fights here and there.
But should I be honest with you?
It would not end in tears…….. Yeah I mean your relationship wouldn’t end in tears. And it isn’t because I am trying to sweet talk you or trying to make you relaxed. I am just stating the facts.
Look I am not here to start using a situation to judge the situation of the public or advice they have started giving. It can’t end in premium tears.
Mutual respect is very important foundation for every relationship.Things you feel doesn’t matter to you, definitely means a lot to your partner. “Thank you”
“You are welcome”
“Please”
“I am sorry” Should always be included in your daily conversation.
You wonder why a lot of relationship ends in tears, why wouldn’t it end when the fundamental is been taken lightly.Don’t take your partner for granted.Don’t ever feel entitled to any thing your partner does for you out of love. Always be grateful and appreciative.
Don’t look down on your partner, support them, look good for them. Even if e go end in tears, cherish the times you spend together like it’s your last Go out with them
Share bonds
Discuss your feelings
Listen to your favourite music together.
Share your saddest and happiest moment together.
You know,the positive effort you put into the relationship and the “realness” of the two parties of the relationship actually makes it work. Don’t ever involve a third party not even your siblings or friends should have a say over your relationship. keep it private.
Sometimes it’s the fear that ” it’ll end in tears” that actually makes it end in tears
Strive to enjoy now and be positive about tomorrow . There’s always going to be tomorrow but you can’t relive any second that has passed…
Enjoy your happiness while it last stop thinking negatively about tomorrow….
Stop thinking about the tears
You can have a happy ending if you stop thinking about the tears.
I hope you know that there are still happy endings and there’s a happy ending for everyone 😊
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Love you from the deepest part 😊💝 Emmahspeaks 🌻
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